blaming

in my past, i always do.. really do..keep blaming myself if i can't reach somethings that i had put it on my targets
keep blaming myself if i can't doing well somethings
keep blaming myself of my imperfection

but now, i still will  n i hope i wont again.. =))
i must thanks to my manager, i think.. :D
he taught me a lot..
he ever told me : if u had put all the effort  on somethings and unfortunately it was failed,
dont blame yourself.. because u are not meant to blame.. why? because u had put all of ur effort..
take it easy.. the one should be blamed is the "EVENT"..
why? because the EVENT had failed.. Not u who failed.. it not cause by u.. although it's in ur case..
since u had  playing hard on this Event, and if the Event was failed, take it as ur experience..
because of failure make u know how it's feeling..make u know which part had failed..
so u will learn about it.. right??
when i heard it, i  felt better..
thanks.. i know he was meant to comfort me.. =))